Showing posts with label personal development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal development. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

The Mythical 'Slim Zone'

I just drove past a gymnasium that was advertisement group-exercise social social classes like this:

'Small classes, tons of fun, no mirrors.'

No mirrors?

Why on Earth is that a merchandising point?

Sure, mirrors aren't necessary... but why would their absence be seen as portion of reasonable selling strategy?

Something to be advertised?

Maybe for the same ground that people don't desire to cognize their weight or their body-fat percentage when I measure them.

"Don't state me, don't state me" people state to me as they reluctantly stand up on the scales of measurement with their eyes shut.

"But you weigh what you weigh right?"

"Yeah but I don't wanna know."

"Why not?"

"I'll acquire depressed."

So I state them their weight and they acquire angry at me.

Too funny.

Nasty Craig.

"Don't acquire grumpy at me... I didn't make that to your body."

When it come ups to reality, we're experts at avoiding it.

I've written a station on 'head-in-the-sand-itis' before but it looks that we may be heading into an epidemic.

A pandemic even.

Maybe we're there already.

It amuses me that a concern can direct out this message:

"Exercise with us and you won't have got to look at your fat selves in the mirror"

"Yep, mark me up!"

I believe some of us should be surrounded by mirrors twenty four-seven until we halt deluding ourselves and start to acquire proactive.

I'm not a fan of mirrors in gymnasiums for amour propre grounds but they are valuable for:

1) Teaching right exercising technique and

2) Keeping us grounded.

"Oh yes... (in a feeble, hapless voice), but I happen it so painful to look at myself in a mirror, it aches so much."

Really?

Well, delay for your first heart-attack; you might rethink your definition of pain. And wait until your pancreas is so shot that you have got to medicate every twenty-four hours for the remainder of your life to pull off your self-induced diabetes... then we'll chat.

A small short-term emotional uncomfortableness now doesn't remotely compare to the human race of injury you're gonna stomach if you don't change your mindset, your wonts and your lifestyle.

No melodrama, just honesty.

It is what it is.

As I always state to my audiences "I can state you what you wanna hear, or I can state you the truth... you can acquire offended, defensive and precious... or you can acquire busy changing your reality."

I actually state people to travel home, take all their clothing off and take a really good expression at themselves in the mirror from all angles.

Slowly.

Preferably take photographs as well.

Why?

Because it's reality, that's why.

It's you.

It's not some computer-generated future fat version of you, it's you right now. Deal with that, toughen up, acquire over the self-pity (it's annoying and accomplishes nothing) and then you will begin to see consequences quickly. Real Number change.

Our physical world doesn't usually aline with psychological reality. In other words, it's almost impossible for you to be aim about you.

Over the old age I have got taken one thousands of 'before' photographs of people (front, side and rear) before they begin their weight-loss/fitness endeavour. Invariably they are stunned when they see the pictures. Why are they so shocked? Because when it come ups to their body, they dwell in some option reality; The Slender Zone. The 1 where they look 40 lbs lighter.

Amazingly, people always inquire me to forbear from showing the photographs to anyone else because on some degree they believe that somehow the photographs are worse than the 'in the flesh' reality.

"See me standing here in my exercise gear wheel but don't look at that photograph we took five proceedings ago (in the same clothes) 'cause I'm so much slimmer in person."
"I don't really look like that photo."

Weird.

I cognize that I may sound rough to some of you and I cognize my attack and doctrine won't sit down well with everyone, that's okay. But twenty five old age of going around in circles with people about the same issues and having the same conversations (often with the same people) will do you a small practical and matter-of-fact. Okay, blunt.

I care more than about your heart, arteries, lungs and overall physical wellness than I make about telling you what you desire to hear; what's comfortable for you. I'm not really about popularity, I'm about change. Results.

I cognize I could compose more than reader-friendly, politically-correct contented but I would be compromising what I believe and lacrimation down an of import message. So blunt Craig it is.

I'm not interested in fluffing someone's emotional pillow or propping up their mediocre self-esteem for five minutes.

I'm interested in their long term physical health.

I'm interested in the truth of the situation.

I'm interested in genuine, forever (never going back) amazing, physical change. It's very possible but we go on to rationalise, warrant and happen new and exciting ways to undermine our ain ends and perpetuate our misery. We consistently blow our potential. And we go on to allow our head acquire in the manner of our body.

We take to dwell the mythical Slender Zone.

Yep, I care about people's feelings and emotional state and yes, I factor them into every interaction with every person... in fact, I work on the premiss that getting in form is largely an emotional process. And Yes, I was a fat kid, so I acquire 'it'.

However... I won't be getting quit of the mirrors in my gymnasium any clip soon.

Sunday, July 1, 2007

How To Increase Your Energy Levels

We all lead such hectic lives that being constantly tired or lacking energy can seem almost normal for many people. Just getting by can take up most of our energy, leaving little left to use to work towards our goals or building our ideal life.

It seems that most successful people have high energy levels. There may be exceptions, but I think it's fair to say that there's probably not that many examples of people who are constantly tired or exhausted, or burned out, achieving and sustaining high levels of success.

So what can we do to increase our energy levels?

Getting enough sleep, relaxing and taking time off when you don't work at all, are the most obvious essentials to maintaining energy levels.

It will also help if we understand the different types of energy we use in our lives.

There is more than one type of energy. The main types of energy are physical, emotional and mental. Although these are distinctly different, they are closely related and interdependent.

Physical Energy

Physical energy is the most basic type of energy. This is the energy that's used in manual labour. People who are involved in this kind of work usually need to eat substantial quantities of food just to sustain themselves. In many cases, at the end of each day they will have little energy left over for anything more than relaxing and sleeping so they can rebuild their strength in preparation for the next day. This is the situation for much of the world's population, particularly in developing countries.

Fortunately, due to automation, labour saving inventions, computers etc many of us no longer have to work as hard physically as previous generations did. More people than ever are employed in knowledge based roles requiring little or no physical effort.

Emotional Energy

Emotional energy is the energy that allows us to experience happiness, joy, love, excitement and many other emotions, both good and bad. This is the energy that gives us our enthusiasm and our love of life, and allows us to have fun. Many of our actions are driven, in varying degrees, by our emotional energy.

Our emotions can have a great impact on our overall energy levels.

When you are with friends and loved ones and are happy, excited or having fun, you will usually find that you have plenty you energy and feel great. This type of interaction with others not only boosts energy levels, but is good for overall health and resistance to illness.

Unsurprisingly, negative emotions have the opposite effect. If you are feeling angry, upset, depressed, frustrated or stressed, for example, you'll find your energy levels depleted and your resistance weak. If you keep feeling this way for extended periods, you'll eventually burn out altogether.

If you can maximise positive emotions and maintain an overall optimistic outlook you'll find that you have more energy that you can put to good use in other areas of your life.

Mental Energy

The other type of energy is mental energy. As many of us now work in knowledge based roles, we use a lot of this type of energy on a daily basis. This is the energy of creativity, decision making, writing, reading, learning new information and much more. Most of us now rely on our mental energy to survive.

How effectively we use our mental energy will ultimately decide how successful we are in our lives. It is our mental energy, through our thought processes, that determines our values and goals and the actions we take, which ultimately determine what we make of our lives.

How well we maximise the use of our mental energy and powers will be a major factor determining how successful and happy our lives turn out.

Negative Energy

One common setback to success is burning up energy in destructive ways. Although most of us don't now engage in much hard physical work, many of us waste huge amounts of emotional energy. This can take many forms. It could be something a common as having a generally negative outlook on life. There are many other examples, such as being over sensitive or easily upset, or being prone to emotional outbursts of anger. or even violence.

Negative emotions can massively drain energy levels, in fact a five minute outburst of anger uses about as much energy as eight hours of mental work.

Being at your best mentally depends on being at your best emotionally. Keeping calm, not letting things bother you, and maintaining a positive mental outlook can make a huge difference to your emotional state, which will boost your mental and physical energy. So will ensuring you get enough sleep, taking time to relax and taking regular breaks where you forget your work altogether. These can be the critical difference between being always tired, highly stressed or constantly on edge, and enjoying a successful, rewarding and happy life.